Rich brought up something very interesting that happened this weekend. Nicole has been tweeting up a storm lately and during her flight to Florida she wrote:
“Hottest guy ever spotting on plane…and he’s sitting next to me! OMG”
“….Ooooo la la and he habla espanol! Swoon!”
Before she got off the plane Nicole then tweeted:
“I’ve landed and enjoyed my time with the hotness that sat next to me…but I’m taken and in love with another man by the name of Bert…”
Rich doesn’t think this is OK at all. He thinks it’s downright disrespectful that Nicole is talking about, nonetheless tweeting about another guy while she is in a long term relationship. Not only was she talking about another guy, but she called him the “hottest guy ever.”
The point Stan, Nicole and Ryan made was that if a guy did that he would be sleeping on the couch, eating takeout, and not getting any for days. When a girl does it she is just being playful and cute, or you’ll hear “I was just joking.”
Who is right here? Was Nicole in the right and just being playful and sharing with you over Twitter, or are the guys right and Nicole was being super disrespectful to her boyfriend? Is the double standard here true or false? Help us shed some light on this one!
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Seriously boys? That’s like saying to a man once he has a girlfriend or gets married, you can no longer go to Hooters. Suck it up! Girl Power
The only reason you “guys” are getting on to Nicole is because she put it in writing! Don’t tell me you guys aren’t guilty of being with your woman at the mall and completely turn your head when a hot chick walks by!!!
I just have to say that there are certain rules to appreciating beauty in the opposite sex while in a relationship. The cardinal rule is that you don’t throw it in the face of your spouse. Everyone looks unless they are dead not everyone is completely rude and throws it in the face of those they are in love with. I don’t think Nicole would appreciate it if the roles were reversed.
I think Nicole is wrong. The casualness of thinking this is acceptable behavior is exactly why relationships fail. Whatever happened to respect and commitment to the person you are in a relationship with. I know that I would never allow myself to engage in such a conversation with a male whether my husband was there or not. I love him and my commitment is to him and only him. I guess I am fortunate enough that our relationship has such a connection and commitment that I feel no neccessity to need to flirt with other guys.
I think it is disrespectful to write those types of comments when you are in a relationship. I wouldn’t want my husband to do that so why would I? There are just some thoughts that need to be kept to yourself. Sorry Nicole but I gotta go with the guys on this one (which is very rare)!
There is a line. And the line exists for both men and women. You wanna look… look. You are human, nothing wrong with reading the menu. But getting all googly eyed and posting that you are swooning for the hottie next to you while in a relationship… not cool. Because where does it end? If you are that willing to “swoon” over someone while you are in a relationship, how much would it take for you to cheat. For me it would become an issue of trust. You rock that trust in your relationship with something like that, you may as well call it over right now.
WHO REALLY CARES!?! You’ve been talking about this for way too long, we’ve had 20′s on 20 on since 7:00 this morning and you’re still talking about it, give it a rest I’m sick of hearing you talk about it.
If you are in a committed relationship, there isn’t anything wrong with looking. However, to blatantly “swoon” basically says that Nicole is making a conscious decision to be attracted to someone, and publicly announcing it is disrespectful. If you can justify this behavior, you can justify cheating when it arises, and cheating doesn’t have to mean physical. And to be fair, this applies to both men and women.
Hello, I think what Nicole did is fine I do it all the time and my husband does not care he does it so what is the big deal. Leave Nicole alone with this. Let he say men are hot women are hot who cares. I do it
I think its a joke! I say stuff to my hubby all the time about guys if I really think they r hot. Not very often tho bc I am really picky… told him I almost switched dentists the other day bc of it. He didn’t think that was so funny. Lol. Its just a joke! Be confident n ur relationship!
I think Nicole’s comments were completely inappropriate. Personally, if my husband was speaking about a girl like that, I would be really angry. And I would never post comments like that because it is just rude and it makes it seem like she is not happy in her current relationship. It is ok to look, but it becomes embarrassing for her bf when everyone knows that she is “swooning” over another man. This would be a definite red flag to me!
I think it depends on the people in the relationship. If Nicole could handle her man saying that about another woman, even TWEETING about it, and it doesn’t upset him that she would do the same.. then its their relationship & who are we to judge?
Obviously Nicole is in a commited relationship. It’s not looking that gets you in truoble, it’s touching. I mean should she close her eyes everytime she sees a hot guy. Guys do this crap all the time, if you have a solid relationship neither has anything to worry about.
I am with the guys on this one. If it had been Rich, Ryan, Stan or any other man she would have pulled out her soapbox and read teh riot act to you about how disrespectful and rude those comments were. Now that the shoe is on the other foot it was just cute and playful. Bull crap!!! Nicole needs to suck it up and realize what she did was totally inappropriate and that a blind person could see that there is a double standard that is larger than life.
It’s different for guys!! If my husband tweeted, facebooked, or mysoaced something like that, I would be upset with him. I don’t know what it is or why it’s different, it just is. Now if I said something like Nicole did, my husband would be ok with it. He would automatically know I was playing around, like Nicole’s boyfriend did. If her boyfriend didn’t have a problem with it, that’s all that matter to Nicole!! Like I said, it’s different for guys and girls…
I think that it is very disrespectful to let everyone know that u think this other guy is so hot. I think it takes your boyfriend down a step. He is who you love but, this other guy is who you find very attractive. But really it all comes down to how your boyfriend feels about it. its not different for guys and girls though one doesnt get to disrespect while the other one does. it has to be equal!!
She’s involved…….not dead. You know guys say things like this all the time. Stop playing by double standards.
I tell my husband if I think someone is HOT, and he doesn’t care. There is a big difference between CHEATING and LOOKING! As long as Nicole is fine with him making a similar comment and he is fine with Nicole doing what she did, What is the BIG DEAL?