Comments on: After Meeting Someone Do You Have To Ask For Their Number, Even If You Don’t Want It?

By: benz

benz — Thu, 18 Jun 2009 18:29:03 +0000

hey look at the movie hes just not that into you!! look how heartbroken she was when the guys never called even tho they got her number. And you really need to think about stuff more!

By: Amanda

Amanda — Thu, 04 Jun 2009 01:59:50 +0000

If you’re not going to call, don’t ask for the number! If you ask, she assumes you will call, and she will be upset if you don’t!

By: Tiera

Tiera — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 21:46:54 +0000

If you’re not going to call don’t ask for a girls number. Especially if you are not interested and they are. Then they just sit around wondering if/when you’re going to call. If you didn’t get her number, no wondering!

By: Victoria

Victoria — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 19:50:13 +0000

I dont think Ryan should have to ask for her number- if he’s not that into her, he’s just not that into her, as the cliche goes…and that’s cool. The way I see it, you like some people and not others and you shouldn’t have to pretend that you like them if you don’t.

By: Tanya

Tanya — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 17:01:22 +0000

If the story is true how Ryan told it. How he was standing there and they were talking then she started making out with him. Does he really think he is the only guy she does that with? Really?? Just be damn thankful you went your separate ways before you ended up with an STI from the skank.

By: Sara

Sara — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 16:51:54 +0000

As a girl, i would prefer that a guy that i kissed in the club and he was just out to have fun and nothing more i would appreciate not getting his number , because giving a number or getting mine would be leading me or if he gives me his number and then totally disses me when i do call him that would actually make him a bigger jerk than if he would have just walk away at the club. So i would advise guys who dont want to lead girls on or hurt their feeling to not even bother with the number thing.

By: saul

saul — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 15:43:06 +0000

there is no reason to get her number! You guys were out to have a fun night and it sounds like you did. So why not leave it at that?

By: Deni

Deni — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 15:38:41 +0000

From a female’s point – been there, had a blast a the club but didn’t offer my#. He on the other hand told me where he worked & before the night was over had given me his business card & was telling which #’s it was easiest to reach him at. We did the phone tag thing a bit – but then it fizzled out – no biggie on my part. No harm, no foul.

By: Stephie

Stephie — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 14:59:19 +0000

Personally I rather them just not ask if they have no intention to call. If I do like the guy and he took my number I’ll be sitting by the phone waiting for the call…that isn’t coming!!! So if he doesn’t take my number I know he’s not interested and I can just move on. I don’t feel used and I don’t feel lied to…win win!

By: James

James — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 14:08:20 +0000

If you are just chatting someone up at the bar, how will they feel used? You were just talking. I talk to people all the time with no desire to be with them, I am just a friendly person. No reason to ask for a number unless you are going to call them.